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Losing a pet is a uniquely painful experience. For many of us without children, our pets aren't just animals; they're our family. They're our confidants, our daily companions, and a source of unconditional love. So when they're gone, the silence they leave behind is deafening. I recently lost my guinea pig, Cinnamon, after almost five years together. The worst part was that I had to sit there and watch her die, completely helpless. There wasn't a single vet in a 100-mile radius who would see her. The feeling of watching a beloved friend suffer and not being able to do a single thing about it is something that will stick with me for a long time. R.I.P. Cinnamon! ðŸ’” This kind of loss brings a complicated type of grief. It's not just sadness; it's layered with guilt, anger, and a profound sense of failure, even when there was nothing you could have done. The world keeps moving, but your little world has stopped. People, often with good intentions, might say t...
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"Can You Really Say That?" Brenna Blain Ignites Conversation

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Can God handle your hardest questions, your deepest struggles, your secret doubts? We're often conditioned to believe he can't. We fear that giving voice to those things will lead to shame, rejection, and distance from the divine. But what if our raw questions aren't a detour from faith, but a highway straight to God's heart?

Can You Really Say That? Brenna Blain's Bold Invitation to Honest Faith

That's the bold premise of Brenna Blain's new book, "Can I Say That?: How Unsafe Questions Lead Us to the Real God." It's not just a book; it's a permission slip for the soul.

It's a bold invitation to those who feel unsafe or unwelcome in traditional church settings, acknowledging the painful gap between religious rhetoric and real-life experiences. As a Bible teacher and advocate for survivors, Blain creates a safe haven for radical honesty.

She doesn't shy away from the tough stuff:

  • Am I safe here?
  • Why does your presence feel so lonely, God?

These aren't just questions; they're cries from the heart. Blain meets them not with platitudes, but with biblical truth and unflinching compassion.

Disclosure: I received this item free in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are 100% my own. This post contains affiliate links; as an Amazon Associate, I earn a small amount from qualifying purchases. I appreciate your support.

Meet Brenna Blain: Your Authentic Guide

This isn't some ivory-tower theologian. Blain is a wife, mom, and contemporary thinker who's wrestled with God in the trenches of mental illness, abuse, and doubt. Her Instagram, @bunonmyhead, is a testament to her raw vulnerability and hard-won wisdom.

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In 'Can I Say That?' she leads by example:

  • Sharing her own messy journey of wrestling with God
  • Showing how that struggle deepened her intimacy with Him
  • Inviting you to do the same

Brace yourself for a journey that will:

  • Convince you—deep in your gut—that God accepts you as you are
  • Reassure you that He's bigger than any mess, any question, any doubt
  • Let you experience His love in the most tender, needy parts of your heart
  • Empower you to engage with complex issues, challenge the status quo, and advocate for a Church that truly reflects Christ's heart

This isn't about earning God's love; it's about experiencing it.

He sees you, knows you, loves you—mess and all. He doesn't need you to change; He wants you to be real. He longs for that deep connection, the kind where you can pour out your heart and be wowed by the beauty of His response.

Love transcends our darkest burdens.

Order Your Copy and Unlock Exclusive Bonuses

Ready to embark on this journey of honest faith? Order 'Can I Say That?' today and receive these special gifts:

  • Sample: Get a sneak peek with the Foreword and Chapters 1 & 2
  • Conversation Starters: Spark meaningful discussions about faith, doubt, and God's presence
  • 5-Day Devotional: Deepen your faith and confront your doubts
  • Guided Journal: Reflect on your journey and connect with God on a deeper level

Don't wait. Your honest faith awaits.

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Who is 'Can I Say That?' For?

  • Anyone who's ever felt like they don't fit in at church
  • Those wrestling with doubt, pain, or difficult questions
  • Survivors of abuse or trauma seeking a safe space for healing
  • Anyone longing for a deeper, more authentic relationship with God

Why This Book Matters

Blain offers something different: raw honesty, tough questions, and the unshakable truth of God's love. 'Can I Say That?' isn't just a book; it's a lifeline for the weary, the wounded, and the wandering.

It's time to stop hiding and start healing. It's time to say what needs to be said.

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Remember: God isn't afraid of your questions. He's waiting for you to ask them.

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